I haven’t made the expected list of resolutions on January 1 for many, many years. That process smacks of the classic struggle of good over evil and triumph through hard work and deprivation or denial. Building up a better life through willpower. Focusing on flaws and ‘improvements needed’. Doomed to failure.
I haven’t trusted that model for a long time. Now, even my favourite philosopher – Dr. Phil – says there’s no such thing as willpower. I KNEW it!
And so I’m taking this time to reflect on the past year and use the turning of the calendar page as a cue to count my blessings. Somehow, doing that has had a more lasting positive effect on my life than being resolute ever did.
Maybe I’ll share my list of blessings when I’m done. It does seem to be a very long one this year….
But I will say this: Thanks, Flora, for your kind words. And a very happy and prosperous 2013 to all.